I Have A Bone To Pick With U!

Do you ever feel like you want to get something resolved with someone and find they or the situation is not going to go away no matter what you do? My family was always brought up to tell the truth. It's how the truth gets told as to whether the person you try to get that situation resolved acts. I know there are those that never want to get things resolved with others. Even at our Real Estate office, sometimes something happens and we never go to the person that offends us. Instead, some of us would rather talk to others about it which really becomes gossip. Why don't we just tell the person what we feel and even if they don't want to move on, they will be the one carrying the weight of anger, not you. Why would they rather carry that heavy, negative weight around all the time? Who knows but what a shame. Get real people. Life is too short to not talk to a brother for 30 years, or haven't seen a mom for 25 years, or they just remember all the bad memories and don't know how to make them positive ones. Maybe, you heard someone say something about you and you feel hurt about it. Don't tell others, go to the person you heard say it and get it resolved with them before it festers and becomes more negative weight. You lose your focus on your job when you let something like that remain still.
Bobo and Izzy would never feel that way about each other or their immediate family. They are sooooooo close you can hardly pull them apart. Wouldn't that be great if we were that close to our own family. Our dogs can teach us to be more caring just watching them interact. Here's a conversation between Bobo and Izzy now, that shows how they move on quickly, from a situation.
"Hey Bobo, excuse me but I have a bone to pick with you." "Okay Izzy, what's the prob?" "Bobo, you came over and took that bone away from me, after you saw I was really enjoying it." "Izzy, We have plenty of bones around here but we only have each other. Could you please get another one? Izzy, you make it look sooooo good when you are chewing on it, I just couldn't resist it. You know I love you, sis." "Okay, Bobo, being you put it that way, I will just get another bone."
Just like Bobo and Izzy, be straightforward about the situation and most of the time you will find your candor to be a breath of fresh air, believe me. Remember the next time you feel you have a bone to pick with someone, try to work it out. I'd rather swallow my pride, than lose all those years of feeling negative and bitter about something or someone. It may just improve your work and family home environment by making it more productive when you can get along. Easier to forgive or approach someone, than to spend wasted energy and time disliking them about something. We usually don't remember what it was about most of the time, anyway.
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